Sunday, May 12, 2013

How surrogacy can change Mother's Day

Amidst all the joy today of Mother's Day, spare a thought for those women for whom Mother's Day inevitably brings pain: the women who tried but have been unable to become mums. Or those doing battle in the Family Court, or who have lost children.

For those women today is an especially painful day, in which the joy of others will remind them of their loss and pain. I have seen that pain, over many years. It can be crushing of the soul.

Luckily at least surrogacy can change the outcome for women who have always dreamt of being a mum but were not able to get there. In fact surrogacy is such a game changer that having children is now as certain as 1, 2, 3; provided the intended parents are prepared for a potentially rocky journey, are patient, are prepared to use donors, and have the funds.

Finding an egg donor or a surrogate is not that hard these days. Usually a goddess called a surrogate or a donor can be found within a couple of months. And the funding is nowhere near as bad as might be thought. It could be as low as $25,000, or as much as $60,000, depending on the amount of IVF, legal expenses and the expenses of the surrogate.

So for those women at least, Mother's Day now represents hope: they now have the chance to become mums, changing their lives forever.

7 comments:

  1. I agree with you, but I'm curious: The most common objection I hear from people I know who are pro-life is that an impotent couple who wants a child can get the embryo implanted in herself. I maintain that it's wrong, but the recourse I fall back into is natural law theory when asked to explain (which is perfectly fine, but in my experience not that convincing). So are there any more concrete reasons to explain why that's wrong? Here i suggest peoples to go INDIA for IVF surrogacy, then you must search for Surrogacy India, Surrogate mother India, IVF India, IVF clinic India & IVF cost india. I found Go Surrogacy for this treatment in India. Hope you also like these.

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  2. You are absolutely right dear! I just love your blog! It has wonderful posts and i read them some of them are really awesome. Please keep posting. Thanks

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  3. A baby normally changes the lifestyle of a woman. But the same cannot be said about surrogate mother. Thanks for highlighting the emotions of a surrogate mother when we are busy celebrating Mother’s Day.

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  4. You have perfectly depicted the emotions of a mother. Whether surrogate or not, a child can change a woman's life. Thanks for article, Mr. Stephen.

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  5. You have a perfect knowledge on a feeling of being a mother. Hats off to you.
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  6. You are right dear i am totally agreed with you. I am also a mother of two babies and thinking like you.
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  7. I also think that it changed the meaning of mother's day but it is also a truth that without surrogacy many woman are not able to become a mother so its good think.
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